Make your own Facebook policy
Whether or not your employee or workplace has laid down the law about acceptable Facebook behavior - I’d like to encourage you to make your own decisions and stick by them. I’ve spent a while thinking about my own personal boundaries and rules so far as what I do and when I do things on the internet.
I’m intently interested in internet marketing but really I’m only a junior at the game. I make websites for a living so a part of my job is keeping on the cutting edge of geekdom. Urrg, sadly as work has demanded more of that I’ve felt less inclined to use twitter and Facebook in the recent months.
I love keeping up what my family scattered around the world are doing and Facebook is able to help me do that… but its also able to drain 30 minutes to an hour of my life every evening… if I let it. I’ve begun to enforce that not let it because I can get to the end of an evening and wonder what I’ve done, despite having starred at a screen for a large portion of it.
There’s always one extra blog to check, someones ’status’ to chuckle over - but the gain is what? What’s the bottom line?
I don’t propose to answer this just yet, as I have not worked it out for myself, but I’m more and more of the opinion that one should make a set of rules for this kind of internet interaction and that way you’ll make of it what you want, not what you think its meant for.
I was inspired by Ed Dale’s recent blog post that discussed his reevaluation of Facebook as a tool.
His sentiment was something that had been brewing in my pool of crazy thoughts for a long time. How do you decide who you want to associate with on Facebook. Should Facebook be any different to any other internet social media? Should you put limits on who you talk to online?
After all so much value comes from not just knowing someone’s name and ’status’, someone’s mood or a quip, it comes from a real interest in their wellbeing - I think.
Facebook is a platform that will let you continue your real-world associations and relationships into the new media but it was never concocted as a place for you to market or network to score business points or financial gain, I don’t think.
Ed Dale’s post amounts to his realisation of this: that if you try to spread yourself too thin, in any case, not just online, you may miss the important things - your family and you close friends. Well, that’s what I read into it and that’s the line his explanation got thinking along.
I now know that for all the networking I do online, I want my Facebook to be for me and my friends, my real friends… not work or discussion or worrying about everything I say as if I need to appeal to nerds, or keep a business professionalism keep friends of friends of friends from stalking me.
My Facebook policy is firstly to have a personal policy about exactly how I want to use my favourite social network.
Make your own Facebook policy, I think you might just find your Facebook time a little more productive and enjoyable.












